polarities

Dance don't Wrestle (Polarities Part 2)

Dance don't Wrestle  (Polarities Part 2)

As above, so below. Principles of nature exist at every scale of the universe from the micro to the macro level, and are at play within all living things: ourselves, within our relationships, society, culture, nature, the world and the cosmos. They are in all living things and in all social dynamics and on every level of existence. The two most basic and foundational principles of life are the polarity of positive and negative, yin and yang, the masculine and the feminine, from which all things are born.

Polarities Matter

Polarities Matter

When it comes to relationships, it is the ways in which we are the same that creates closeness between us.  Shared values, shared world view, shared goals, shared interests, time spent together and so on.   But it is distance and difference which creates and renews desire in a long term relationship.  Because a lot of  couples spend a lot of time together and sleep in the same bed every night, they can end up very deeply bonded on a friendship and love level, yet find that their attraction to each other gets weaker the longer they spend together.  All is not lost though, as there are some very practical things we can do to keep desire alive.