I have a lot of sympathy for men. I think they put up with a lot. The way they are portrayed on tv shows as bumbling idiots who can’t use a washing machine even though practically every machine ever invented was invented by a man. The unconscious manner in which women joke about them and put them down. The way it's seemingly ok for women to objectify men but god forbid a man even looks too long at a woman.
Sexual Self Esteem is how a woman feels about herself in relation to matters of sex, how much she knows about herself sexually, and about the feminine mysteries of her own body, her ability to flow freely and enjoy sex, to know what she wants and to have clear boundaries. A woman with high sexual self confidence is attractive to men, or whoever she wants to relate with.
When you touch someone it should be special. You should be centred and present and fully engaged with the part of the body you are touching. Conscious touch is loving, present, relaxing, and expansive. All touch should be conscious. Unconscious touch, touching a person while your mind is elsewhere really doesn’t feel very nice.
"Your body is your ground metaphor for life, the expression of your existance. It is your bible, your encyclopedia, your life story. Everything that happens to you is stored and reflected in your body. Your body knows. Your body tells. The relationship to your self to your body is indivisible, inescapable, unavoidable.
