I have a lot of sympathy for men. I think they put up with a lot. The way they are portrayed on tv shows as bumbling idiots who can’t use a washing machine even though practically every machine ever invented was invented by a man. The unconscious manner in which women joke about them and put them down. The way it's seemingly ok for women to objectify men but god forbid a man even looks too long at a woman.
Sexual Self Esteem is how a woman feels about herself in relation to matters of sex, how much she knows about herself sexually, and about the feminine mysteries of her own body, her ability to flow freely and enjoy sex, to know what she wants and to have clear boundaries. A woman with high sexual self confidence is attractive to men, or whoever she wants to relate with.
Sexual Self Esteem is how a woman feels about herself in relation to matters of sex, how much she knows about herself sexually, and about the feminine mysteries of her own body, her ability to flow freely and enjoy sex, to know what she wants and to have clear boundaries. A woman with high sexual self confidence is attractive to men, or whoever she wants to relate with.
Happiness on a biological level is a body full of balanced hormones, chemical reactions such as endorphins and oxytocin, an abundance of life force energy, and the capacity to cultivate delicious feelings of orgasmicness and blissful sensations of pleasure throughout the body. Having a positive relationship with your sexual nature is such an important part of a woman’s healthy and fulfilled life.
Kegal exercises are vaginal toning exercises, such as squeezing tightly, contracting, and pulling the vaginal floor up, often recommended to women as a necessary exercise we need to do to keep the vaginal muscles strong and toned. Particularly after childbirth or as a woman ages, different conditions such as incontinence or prolapses can commonly occur. It doesn’t have to be that way, it speaks of a society of women who haven't been nourishing their own vaginas.
Genital armour refers to tension, tightness and hardness which builds up in the genital area which blocks energy flow to the pelvic area. We all have body armouring, defence structures that the body creates to help us cope with childhood and life in general. Sometimes it was necessary to resist and to protect ourselves from the inevitable violations and traumas of life. By armouring, the body seeks to protect itself from pain, emotional, physical or spiritual.
Sex has an evolutionary function. When we raise our sexual energy up through the chakras and circulate it through our bodies, we are using sexual energy in the way it was designed to be used. Sexual energy is life force energy, it is the energy of enlightenment and freedom and liberation. Repression of sexual energy is a form of subjugation and control of the masses, naturally favoured by organised religion, it’s a cultural legacy, held in sway by the busyness and stress of people’s lives. Sadly, we are distanced in today’s world from the power and ecstasy of our own bodies.
Woman's basic unhappiness, her perennial discontent, is because man can no longer reach her physically. Her emotional excess, depressions, tearful frustration, even pre menstrual tension and the conditions leading to hysterectomy and other uterine problems, are due to man's sexual failure to gather and release in lovemaking her finest fundamental female energies ... Man's basic unhappiness, his perennial restlessness, is because in forgetting how to make love, he abandoned his original divine authority and lost sexual control of himself.
A woman in touch with her feminine essence is a sensual, grounded woman, in touch with her true strength which is love.
As women, our power is found through going within and inhabiting ourselves with gratitude. Qualities like grace, compassion and awareness radiate from us the more in touch with our bodies we become.
We all seek our kindred soul or spirit, but, as Initiatic Science tells us, you cannot find on the outside what you have not already found inside, you will pass it by without noticing. The more beauty you possess inwardly, the more beauty you will perceive on the physical plane. If you are not sufficiently developed, if you have no beauty inside, then you will not see it around you nor even recognize its existence. If you have inner beauty, you will see it everywhere, because the outer world is a reflection of the inner world. Omraam Mikhael Aivanhov
This is a conversation between Charles Eisenstein (author of Sacred Economics) and Rex Brangwyn.
i thought it was wonderful, so I encourage anyone with an interest in deepening their sexual connection, male or female, to listen to it. With their partner, if possible. It speaks of the possibilities that occur when the masculine practices pure presence with the feminine. This allows her to fully open her sexuality. This is a very powerful thing, which not all men have yet experienced, so please, listen, and enjoy.
